About Dr. Shelly
Hi! I'm Dr. Shelly - a sex and relationship expert, author, speaker, chiropractor, tantra practitioner, yoni egg goddess, and most importantly a happily married wife. It's the most important because it doesn't matter what qualifications and training I have if I can't live what I teach. My husband and I have been together for almost a decade and we've worked through and overcome all the challenges of keeping the spark alive in a long term relationship. Our instagram followers frequently tell us that what we have is a fairy tale relationship, something unheard of today.
And that's why I'm so passion about what I do...
I get to talk to you about sex!
It is one of the most overlooked aspects of life, yet one of the most important.
Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together.
Sex is the first step in cultivating sexual energy which is the most powerful healing force in the entire universe.
Sex is one of two activities that shuts off your mind and connects you to your higher power.
Sex releases chemicals in your body that creates a bond with your partner that's stronger than glue.
So who wouldn't want more sex, right? Not to mention all the health benefits of sex.
But unfortunately, that's not the case in today's society. When sex isn't considered important or is a taboo topic in your relationship, you will nonetheless feel like you are missing something and this sexual tension will lead to frustration, anger, arguments, addictions, disease, or infidelity.
Today's statistics scare me - and they should scare you too!
When 50% of women struggle having an orgasm, 67% of marriages end in divorce, and 50% of couples don't even discuss their sex life – it shouldn't feel awkward to work with someone like me.
Because if you're not having mind-blowing, spine-tingling, earth-quaking, teeth-shattering orgasms that leave you feeling connected to the universe in a euphoric high, whether you're single or 20 years into marriage, then you're missing out on your full potential!
What's your full potential, you may ask?
Well, if you're a woman, it is possible to have 13 different types of orgasms, multiple orgasms in a row, a squirting orgasm, a partner who is addicted to you, a rocking body that you love no matter what your age is, and a highly fulfilling, pleasurable sex life.
If you're a man, it is possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation, overcome erectile dysfunction, have multiple orgasms in a row, a partner who loves and wants sex more than you do, as well the rocking body and the highly fulfilling, pleasurable sex life.
So how do I help you have ALL of that, and then some?
My coaching techniques are a blend of Ayurvedic Medicine, Tantra, Taoism and Quantum Physics, as I commonly refer to it as ancient wisdom meets modern day science. Basically, I teach you how to harness your life force energy (chi, sexual energy, prana, kundalini, etc), which was once considered the most powerful healing force known to man, and use it to transform all areas of your life.
My work is much more complex than advocating sex as a cure; it is advocating YOU as a cure. Life force energy resides inside of every single body on this planet and is the gateway to vibrant health of the mind, body, and spirit.
Thousands of years ago, sex was the key to longevity, vitality, fulfilling relationships, beyond satisfying orgasms, connection to the divine, and optimal health of our body, mind, and spirit. It was viewed as sacred, not as taboo.
There are many ways you can work with me. First, be sure to join my mailing list below and receive all of my free e-Books. Second, you can browse the various ways of working with me here or join one of my ePrograms. Third, if you don't see anything that resonates with you, but would rather customize a program, contact me here.
Now my credentials and how I got to where I am today...
I was born and raised in Dayton, Ohio. I have a B.S. degree with an emphasis in exercise science and psychology, and continued on to become a chiropractor at Palmer College of Chiropractic in Davenport, Iowa, graduating magna cum laude at the young age of 23.
I've always been a seeker of what else is possible and on my own journey of healing, I was introduced to many different techniques that led me to continue my studies in quantum physics, tantra, consciousness and sexuality.
My epiphany that I speak about in a lot of my video interviews occurred when I realized that I was having full body orgasms on a chiropractic adjustment table that not only were pleasurable, but very healing and left me feeling connected to the universe and at absolute peace. But I wasn't having that in the bedroom until I met my husband, Kumar, who often times is a guinea pig for a lot of my tips and tricks that I give you.
Over a course of 5 years as a certified global facilitator for a worldwide consciousness organization offering empowerment workshops in over 30 different countries, I realized that 99% of my class attendees were women and whatever "issue" they wanted to fix - sexual energy was the catalyst for change.
Over the past 10 years, I have now helped thousands of women, men and couples have the sex life that they've always wanted, but never knew was possible.
I have been featured on CBS, as well as numerous radio shows, popular online blogs, and in interviews for published books.
I am currently the co-author of 'The Energy of Happiness', as well as the author of several e-books and I have a book on the way.
When not saving lives in my chiropractic office, writing, or teaching workshops, I am enjoying life in paradise with my amazing partner in crime. Together, we show up in the world to demonstrate to others the living example of all that is possible in sex and relationships!